Fight for Love!!

Yesterday I was listening to music on YouTube and I came across this new song by an artist I was familiar with, so I listened to the song. As I was listening to the song, the song became very interesting to me. See I am one those people who listen for the lyrics that are catchy and a good melody and a good beat. The song is called Rock Bottom by Hailee Steinfeld featuring DNCE, it's an amazing song, with a good message behind it. It's about a relationship where they are constantly fighting and making up, she is getting frustrated because she feels as if that is all they do. One of the lyrics is, what are we fighting for? In this post I want to talk about relationships and the truth behind the concept.

Relationships, the concept of falling for the one person who "complete's you". When first finding someone the could be your potential one in a million, it's a head over heels moment. The rush of falling in love, after about six months that "high" has faded and all that is left is reality. Normally once the high has left, differences arise and fights become more and more common. This is where the relationship get's tested, the test is to see if the two of you can figure out how to solve the issue together and work as a team. I may not be an expert on relationships because the longest relationship I've been in was about three weeks. Although I am very observant and I have learned from many others. Also I know a fairly good amount about working with people, being a psychology major you learn a lot about the human brain.

How do you know when you have found the one and only for you? Well my advice is to stick with it, if the fights are intense but no matter how intense those fights are the two of you always seem to keep coming back to each other, that's when you know that things are real. You know it's got to be real because no matter how mad and angry you get at them, they are still the only person you would rather be with. After every fight the best thing to do is to wait, breathe, think, and go back, fight for love don't fight them. Fighting is a lot like stress, it's supposed to build you up, especially as a couple. Fighting makes the bond between the both of you stronger, because it makes you realize what you are really fighting for. Your fighting for each other, fighting to stay together.